Saturday, December 27, 2008

Friendship

Friends are a blessing to have. They fill your life with love, laughter and memories. Any friend that you have has an influence on your life and what kind of person you'll end up to be. A friend that helps you in need and never takes advantage of you, is a friend everybody should have. A friend isn't somebody who judges who you are, or puts you down in any ways possible. And, of course in every body's life there's a time when you try to build a strong friendship but you can't seem to get it to work, because there's been things that have been said or done that shouldn't have been or problems that cant seem to come to a solution. Even though everybody in life makes careless mistakes and says things that don't come out right, it doesn't mean it should stop a friendship.

I know what its like to try to put forth the effort to make a friendship work, or to even just try to be friends. In the end with some people it seemed to be worth it, but with others i wondered why i even tried. Going through arguments and making big deals out of small situations can lead a friendship to where both people go separate ways or they can just simply get over it. I think its worth going through the struggles to be friends with someone. Because every time i have, in the end its seem to pay off, except for some. And like everybody else I'm still trying more and more to be a good friend. Yes i know that I've made mistakes being friends with people. But looking back at them I've learned what a friend really is.

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"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, then money, than circumastances, than, failures, than succeses, than what other people say or do. Its is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company .. .church . . . a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past . . . we cannot change our the fact people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude . . . I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And it is with you ... we are in charge of our Attitudes."